The Lobster Pot
Weddings & Day-Two Celebrations

The day you say “I do” deserves a location as unique and unforgettable as your love story. Welcome to The Lobster Pot, a stunning seaside location where decades of legendary charm meet seamless, bespoke celebration. We are thrilled at the chance to be part of your most perfect day, offering a premium, relaxed, and genuinely Irish experience that ensures you and your cherished guests feel utterly special from the moment you arrive. Forget the conventional; this is where magic is made, memories are shared, and the most important chapter of your life begins.

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Location

The Heart of the Hook Peninsula

Imagine raising a toast under the roof of a genuinely historic, traditional Irish pub, nestled between the beautiful Carne Beach and the scenic Our Lady’s Island. The Lobster Pot is more than a venue; it is a unique seaside landmark in Carne, Co. Wexford, where every piece of memorabilia tells a story and the ultimate backdrop for an alternative, stylish wedding celebration. Book our full Irish pub exclusively for your wedding and give your guests an experience they’ll talk about forever.

The Team

Crafting Your Premium Experience

Paul Behan

As your dedicated host, Paul brings a lifetime of experience managing weddings and events at prestigious hotels.
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Ania Swiderska

Our menus are elevated by the talent of Chef Ania Swiderska, the newly crowned Chef of the Year 2025 at the South East Radio Restaurant Awards.

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Ceremony

Where Dreams Come True

We offer two breathtaking options to make that moment truly yours.

Picture exchanging vows in the shadow of a beautifully restored 19th-century Castle.  Read more…

The Pot Itself

For a deeply intimate and truly unique celebration, you can host your ceremony right here at The Lobster Pot. 
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Bespoke Celebration & Culinary Excellence

Our packages are designed to offer a premium, comprehensive dining experience, ensuring maximum enjoyment for you and your guests. Remember, bespoke options, including full traditional buffet setups, are always available upon request!

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Pearl Package:

  • On arrival – Kir Royale or Pint of Guinness, Fresh Carlingford Oysters. Freshly made finger sandwiches and baked scones.
  • Dinner: 4-course dinner, choice of 2 starters, 2 main courses, 2 desserts, Tea/Coffee and Petit Fours.
  • Drinks: Half bottle of house wine per person.
  • Evening: Stone Baked Pizza Slices.
  • €80 per person.

Opal Package:

  • On Arrival- Glass of Champagne for all guests, Lobster Pate Bilini's and Carlingford Oysters. Charcuteire and Cheese Board, Freshly Baked Scones
  • Dinner: 5-course dinner, choice of 2 starters, soup course, 2 main courses, 2 desserts, Tea/Coffee and Petit Fours.
  • Drinks: Half Bottle of Premium wine per person
  • Evening: Stone Baked Pizza Slices & Mini Fish and Chips.
  • €100 per person.

We understand every wedding is unique. Paul and Chef Ania will work with you to tailor menus to specific dietary needs or preferences, whether you prefer fine dining plates or hearty traditional Irish food. We also offer the option for exclusive hire of the entire bar for your celebration, guaranteeing absolute privacy and a truly personal atmosphere for your Day Two or reception.


For larger celebrations (over 70 guests): To ensure seamless perfection and service flow, we provide a set starter and dessert, while offering a choice of main course for your guests.


Capacity Notes: Our maximum guest numbers are 100 during peak season (June, July, August, September) and 75 during all other months.

Our Gallery

Take a glimpse into the magic that awaits your love story and get inspired for your unforgettable day

photos taken by Ben Power

Begin your Story

Ready to plan a celebration as unique as your love? Get in touch with our wedding team today to check availability and start customising your perfect day. We promise a premium experience and genuine care from your very first contact.